When someone unsubscribes, you’re supposed to take them off your send list.
We’ll still send you dozens of DIFFERENT kinds of emails! I always imagine two single girlfriends checking out different guys’ online dating profiles together.
You’ve now learned to Stop - Drop and Roll and you have decided you are interested. Bring traditional dating rules into the online dating world and wink back just as you might in a social scene.
As tempted as you may be to fire off a thank you note, please do not. Returning a wink with an email makes the toad in a man jump up and take notice and that is the last thing you want to do! Let him come back to you with a note of admiration or appreciation.
I knew I had to choose between winking and emailing, I just didn’t know what meant what. For the uninitiated, the wink is a first socially acceptable and benign but flirty contact between the citizens of the online dating community or as I love to call it, the Toad Kingdom.
First, I considered my options and was leaning toward re-upping my membership for another three months. And decided to move forward with just Two Poles in the Pond.
He may, however, start to lurk around your profile when you are online, and he could potentially send you a note. I learned to feel secure within the avenues provided by the dating sites I used. He is now forced to make a decision - either email or get off the lily pad. Letting him make the next move will toad proof you this round.
At the end of the day, if you get a creepy vibe at any point in the process, try another pond...there are plenty of Toad Kingdoms out there. If you return his wink with an email, you give away your power too early in this game.
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